Over the last year or so, there’s been a debate on social media regarding a woman’s size. If she is plus size, is she considered, “thick”, “fat”, or “BBW”? My response is why does anyone care? Now in all honesty…I liked when Drake rapped that he liked his girls BBW, but then I remembered that BBW is also associated with a type of porn. All I could think of after that was the fetishization of plus size women, but that’s a different topic for a future post.

When I’ve seen these posts on social media, there’s a collage of women of different sizes and one has to determine what they are. Many of the responses were mean spirited. Then the plus size women are justifying themselves in the post as to why they are thick, fat, BBW, etc. Are you f*cking kidding me?!?!? Is that what we’re doing now?!?!?

My answer to this crazy debate is this: YOU ARE WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO ANSWER TO. If you want to be seen as thick, fat, large, BBW, etc. that’s your business. Are these folks paying your bills and cooking your meals? No? Okay then!

Unfortunately people can be mean and spout negativity no matter what you say or do, so don’t let what others think dim your light. I know this is much easier said than done, but if someone is spending that much energy trying to define you then it’s obvious they need a hobby. They have too much time on their hands.

What do I answer to, you ask? Sexy thickness…that’s all you need to know 😉

Shine on my friends! Much love!

-The Curvy Doc